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The Lonely Courage of Caleb and Joshua

June 18, 2025

Parashat Shelach tells one of the most emotionally jarring and spiritually revealing stories in the Torah. Twelve spies are sent to scout the Promised Land. Ten return with tales of giants and fortified cities, their words soaked in fear and despair. Only two—Caleb and Joshua—speak in the voice of faith: “We shall surely go up and inherit it, for we can overcome it” (Numbers 13:30).

For this, the people want to kill them.

The story of the spies is not just a tale of national failure. It is a mirror for every generation that struggles between fear and faith, realism and hope, consensus and conscience. Caleb and Joshua stand not merely as characters in a distant narrative, but as archetypes of Jewish moral courage—the kind that speaks truth even when it costs everything.

The Majority Report: Fear in the Garb of Realism

Let’s begin with the ten. They do not lie. They report accurately on the land’s abundance and its military challenges. But the Torah signals their failure with one small phrase: “But…” (וְאֶפֶס). That single word marks the point where realism tips into despair. “But the people are stronger than we. But there are giants. But we are like grasshoppers.” (Numbers 13:28–33)

They speak the language of caution, but their caution is saturated with fear. Their anxiety is not logistical—it is theological. They do not trust that the God who split the sea can also help them cross into history. They would rather go back to Egypt than move forward into the unknown.

There is a deep Jewish insight here: fear often masquerades as wisdom. It dresses up as pragmatism, as humility, as “just being careful.” But the Torah sees through the disguise. As Rashi notes, the spies sinned not only in what they said, but in how they said it: “They spoke evil of the land.” Lashon hara, slander—not of people, but of hope itself.

The Courage to Speak a Different Truth

Enter Caleb and Joshua.

Caleb interrupts the cascade of fear: “Let us go up at once!” Later, he and Joshua tear their garments in grief, crying out to the people: “If God desires us, He will bring us into the land.” (Numbers 14:8)

But their words fall on deaf ears. The people are too frightened. And so, as the text chillingly records, “the entire assembly said to pelt them with stones.” (14:10)

Why such violence? Why is hope so threatening?

The answer is painfully contemporary. Hope demands responsibility. If the land is truly within reach, then the people cannot remain passive. They must risk. They must believe. And for many, especially those who have internalized the trauma of slavery, that demand feels unbearable.

It is easier to curse the future than to carry it.

Two Models of Resistance

Caleb and Joshua stand together, but they do not stand the same.

Caleb, as the Midrash in Sotah 34b tells us, went alone to pray at the graves of the patriarchs in Hebron. He needed spiritual reinforcement, a way to hold onto his courage. God later praises him as having a “different spirit” (רוח אחרת)—a soul that did not follow the crowd.

Joshua, meanwhile, is more cautious. Moses changes his name from Hoshea to Yehoshua, adding a yud, invoking God’s protection—perhaps because Moses feared that Joshua might be influenced by the others. And yet Joshua holds firm.

Together, they offer two paths of dissent. One is fueled by direct confrontation, the other by quiet inner resolve. One prays at graves, the other stays close to Moses. Both are needed. Both are holy.

Moral Loneliness and Jewish Leadership

In his wartime essays, Rabbi Leo Baeck once wrote of the Jew as *“the guardian of the moral law”—*a lonely role, born of covenant. To live as a Jew is to know that there are moments when you will be called to stand apart, even from your own community.

Caleb and Joshua embody that sacred loneliness.

They are not leaders because they command power, but because they are willing to speak truth when no one wants to hear it. This is the essence of Jewish prophetic leadership: not popularity, but moral clarity.

Think of figures like Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel, who marched with Dr. King when many rabbis told him to stay in the ivory tower. Think of Hannah Senesh parachuting into Nazi Europe, armed only with a pen and a pistol. Think of Soviet refuseniks singing Hebrew songs in prison cells, or Israeli commanders refusing unethical orders. These are the spiritual descendants of Caleb and Joshua.

They do not win popularity contests. But they do carry the covenant forward.

Why Faith Feels So Risky

Faith is not certainty. It is not blindness. Faith is the decision to act as if God’s promises matter—even when the facts seem to say otherwise.

Caleb and Joshua saw the same terrain as the others. They saw the giants. But they saw more than that. They saw covenant. They saw history. They saw a future.

Rav Soloveitchik, in Kol Dodi Dofek, writes that there are two types of Jews: the Jew of fate, and the Jew of destiny. The Jew of fate is pushed by history. The Jew of destiny steps forward to shape it.

Caleb and Joshua are Jews of destiny.

They do not deny the danger. They transcend it.

The Rage Against Hope

Perhaps the most haunting moment of this story is not the fear—but the fury. When Caleb and Joshua speak, the people do not argue. They pick up stones.

Hope enrages those who have built their identity around despair. Optimism threatens cynics because it demands action. It insists that the world can change—and if that’s true, then what excuse do we have for not building it?

We see this today, painfully, in many corners of the Jewish world. The cynical dismissal of Jewish renewal, the contempt for Israeli resilience, the suspicion toward Jewish students who speak proudly of their heritage. Hope is mocked as naivete. Survival is treated as complicity. Those who say “We can go up” are still being pelted with metaphorical stones.

But Caleb and Joshua teach us: hope is not weakness. It is resistance.

What Do You See?

This is the question that hangs in the air long after Parashat Shelach ends.

Twelve people saw the same landscape. Ten saw defeat. Two saw destiny.

What do we see?

Do we see a Jewish future worth fighting for? A people resilient enough to face both giants and exile? Or do we retreat into spiritual Egypt, telling ourselves that survival is too hard, that faith is too risky, that being Jewish is a burden too great?

In a moment when Jewish fear is real—and Jewish loneliness even more so—Caleb and Joshua come to whisper across the centuries: Yes, the night is long. But the morning is possible.

Conclusion: The Voice of Promise

The Talmud teaches that Caleb’s name comes from the word kelev—dog—not because he was submissive, but because he was loyal. He did not abandon the promise. He did not turn on the people. He remained fiercely, stubbornly faithful.

Joshua, meanwhile, becomes Moshe’s successor. But he does not rise because he is charismatic. He rises because he listened. Because he remained. Because he believed when it was hardest.

We need their voices now.

We need Jewish leaders who can see the challenges without surrendering to them. We need Jews who will pray at the graves of their ancestors and return with courage. We need teachers and students, rabbis and rebels, activists and dreamers who will say: “We can go up.”

Because if we do not carry the promise forward—who will?

May we, like Caleb and Joshua, be blessed with a different spirit. A spirit not of fear, but of faith. Not of despair, but of destiny. Not of Egypt—but of the Promised Land that still waits for us to believe.

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