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A Letter To My Daughter On Her First Day of Kindergarten

August 17, 2016


 

Naama,

Today was a day that your Imma (mom) and Abba (dad) looked forward to for many years. It was, to put it lightly a Shehecheyanu moment. We woke up, earlier than usual, and drove you to your first day of kindergarten at The Friedel Jewish Day School. I remember like it was yesterday arriving in Omaha in August 2011, you were 5 weeks old, and being taken on a tour of the school. Imma and I knew from the moment we got married that our children would attend Jewish Day School, but we never imagined we would be blessed to remain in Omaha and have you begin your formal Jewish studies at Friedel.

When I dropped you off this morning, watching you sit at your assigned table with students of all ages “asking if you were excited” solidified my decision to send you to Friedel. Naama, over the next few years you are going to learn a great deal, Imma and Abba will be there to guide you as will your new Friedel family.

At Friedel you will learn to read and write in Hebrew, you will learn about all the Jewish holy days that we observe at home and a whole bunch of new tunes for the prayers we do at synagogue. You will come home with tons of questions, just remember to always ask Imma first ๐Ÿ™‚ You will make new friends and be inspired by creative and loving teachers.

Yet, here is the most important lesson, the reason I felt is so important you go to Jewish Day School was not so you grow up to be observant, not that you love Israel, give money to your local Federation or even marry a Jew. Those outcomes are out of my control, although I hope Day School and Camp, will impact those choices.

Naama, you will undoubtedly learn the names of great rabbis; Hillel and Shammai to Heschel and Soloveitchik, but more importantly you will learn about the great contributions to the world by such Jews as Salk, Einstein, Bohr and Wiesel. You will be empowered and inspired by Jewish values and teachings, you will see the world through the eyes of a 5000 year old tradition that has lit the world.

Naama, you will make your own decisions about what Judaism means to you, today Ima and Abba gave you the tools to navigate the journey.

 

Always know that when bumps come up along the way that Imma and Abba love you unconditionally.

 

Love,

Abba

Comments

  1. Shira Abraham says

    August 17, 2016 at 9:51 am

    We love you, Naama!

    Love, Imma

  2. Bob says

    August 17, 2016 at 9:52 am

    Lovely. May she grow in all ways every day.

  3. Joel says

    August 17, 2016 at 10:08 am

    Beautiful!

    The impact that Friedel Jewish Academy and Camp Ramah will have on her future are tremendous.

    She will find a new “family” of friends that will be with her forever.

  4. Jonah Layman says

    August 17, 2016 at 12:28 pm

    What a beautiful girl! May she always bring you joy and blessings!

  5. sherry says

    August 17, 2016 at 12:45 pm

    Beautiful!
    Remember these days.
    Now I have to stop crying.

  6. Laura Bair says

    August 17, 2016 at 1:49 pm

    Rabbi that was so cool that I cried. It was very touching, and beautiful. Naama you have wonderful parents that love you very much

  7. Betsy says

    August 17, 2016 at 2:04 pm

    Steven, this is such a priceless letter that Naama will cherish more and more as she matures. You and Shira are wonderful parents and role models. Sending love, hugs and so much respect.

  8. Nancy says

    August 17, 2016 at 4:42 pm

    A blessing in your lives!!! Savor the moments. There will be many.

    You’re a beautiful family!!

  9. Jan says

    August 17, 2016 at 8:43 pm

    Mazel Tov on relishing this very special day. Beautiful picture–memorable moment. Thanks for sharing, and may you look forward to many more as Naama and Leor grow

  10. Mindy says

    August 18, 2016 at 12:20 am

    Beautiful.

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